Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How to Talk Like a Mind Reader.

"A Good Conversationalist is not one who remembers what was said but says what someone wants to remember".This can be accomplish by knowing who you are which is a big question on its own,u must always connect your mind with the brain so as to make easy to remembrance,not this alone of course it must be as fast as the speed of light so as not to wet out the whole conversation.Now for you to really say what someone wish to remember you must set your mind at peace with chatters and must have being as close as you can  to know their ways of thinking.One of the most important aspect when it comes to developing one's self on how to talks like a mind reader is to be a master at experiences,meaning you must have been engage in such a talk.
Never you sleep-off the fact that a good conversationalist is also a good listener when it comes to newer issues,be willing to learn from others talk by listening.
Listening is an attitude of the heart, a genuine desire to be with another which both attracts and heals.
J. Isham

Listening is one of the most important skills you can have. How well you listen has a major impact on your job effectiveness, and on the quality of your relationships with others.

We listen to obtain information.
We listen to understand.
We listen for enjoyment.
We listen to learn.
Given all this listening we do, you would think we’d be good at it! In fact we’re not. Depending on the study being quoted, we remember a dismal 25-50% of what we hear. That means that when you talk to your boss, colleagues, customers or spouse for 10 minutes, they only really hear 2½-5 minutes of the conversation.
Turn it around and it reveals that when you are receiving directions or being presented with information, you aren’t hearing the whole message either. You hope the important parts are captured in your 25- 50%, but what if they’re not?
Clearly, listening is a skill that we can all benefit from improving. By becoming a better listener, you will improve your productivity, as well as your ability to influence, persuade negotiate. What’s more, you’ll avoid conflict and misunderstandings

Hmmm!!!!
To enhance your listening skills, you need to let the other person know that you are listening to what he or she is saying. To understand the importance of this, ask yourself if you’ve ever been engaged in a conversation when you wondered if the other person was listening to what you were saying. You wonder if your message is getting across, or if it’s even worthwhile to continue speaking. It feels like talking to a brick wall and it’s something you want to avoid.
Acknowledgement can be something as simple as a nod of the head or a simple “uh huh.” You aren’t necessarily agreeing with the person, you are simply indicating that you are listening. Using body language and other signs to acknowledge you are listening also reminds you to pay attention and not let your mind wander.
You should also try to respond to the speaker in a way that will both encourage him or her to continue speaking, so that you can get the information if you need. While nodding and “uh huhing” says you’re interested, an occasional question or comment to recap what has been said communicates that you understand the message as well.

Exercising your heart to good talks won't do you bad also,because this determine the categories of conversation your mind record.Be Conscious of what of the interpretation your heart  give to new phrases as it becomes  tree with many branches of your imagination.
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Good luck.

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